Your first name of Abela has made you happiest when you are expressing in some creative, artistic way, and not conforming to strict routine. You tend to scatter your efforts, often not finishing what you start, particularly when the task becomes mundane. You love to argue and can be strong-willed, but you are easily hurt by the comments of others. You seldom like your time to be organized rigidly by others, but like to do things in your own way, at your own time. You appreciate music, art, and drama and if given training, could excel in those fields. These contrasting natures make it difficult for people to understand you and can lead to friction in your personal life. In a large group of comparative strangers, you are quiet and rather shy, unable to express yourself, not really wanting to become involved in conversation. You enjoy sweets and starchy foods. Over-indulgence could cause a weak back, skin conditions or arthritis later in life. The reserved, sensitive side of your nature brings aloneness and friction into your life, although you crave affection and understanding.