Your first name of Abeltje creates a friendly, sociable, charming nature, but causes you to be too easily influenced by others. You could be drawn into a position of public service, where your straightforward advice could help others overcome challenging moments. You relish being made a fuss of, yet you find it difficult to express your appreciation and to reciprocate with words of endearment and expressions of affection. You are intuitive, but must guard against experiencing the suffering of others through your own nervous system. You desire to have the best in life, but sometimes the determination is not within the qualities of your first name to get those things through consistent hard work and effort. You like to do things your own way, learning from your own experiences. It is sometimes difficult for you to muster the interest, initiative, and reasoning ability to concentrate and to think through complex concepts, especially in subjects that do not hold your interest. Very often you put off activities until you are forced to take action. Weakness of the name centre in the fluids of the body: poor circulation, kidney or bladder troubles. When asked, you are able to give others good advice that you would probably not follow yourself, but must guard against being too opinionated in controversial matters.