Your first name of Aerfen gives you a friendly, congenial personality and causes you to desire activities involving people. You need to see a concept presented completely in detail before you can understand it, and if you cannot understand it, you come to your own conclusion and often fail to listen to and reason out another's point of view. Sometimes friction in association results because your penchant for exactness and detail can cause you to be too fussy over inconsequential matters in the home or at work. You are not comfortable having to make major decisions. You find it difficult to take a definite stand, partly because you lack confidence, and also because you dislike any issues which create dissension between people. It is hard for you to face an issue directly and say “yes” or “no” and mean it, though you have a quickness of mind that enables you to respond with artful diplomacy to evade unpleasant situations. Even with lesser ones, you prefer to talk them over with a respected friend or associate first. Not liking to stand alone, you seek the assurance of love, understanding, and appreciation to give you the confidence to do your best. Growths could also be a possibility. You resist being forced into change and could become almost impervious to new ideas.
