Your first name of Ahlai gives you a friendly, congenial personality and causes you to desire activities involving people. Peaceful and settled conditions appeal to you and you are naturally desirous of having the security of a home, where your life could follow a definite pattern, and where you would not have to make major decisions. You need to see a concept presented completely in detail before you can understand it, and if you cannot understand it, you come to your own conclusion and often fail to listen to and reason out another's point of view. You find it difficult to take a definite stand, partly because you lack confidence, and also because you dislike any issues which create dissension between people. At times you exhibit an uncompromising attitude and indifference toward others through failing to listen to and reason out another person’s point of view. Others do not always realize how sensitive and aware you are of their thoughts and feelings toward you. Although you may dream of better things, you find it hard to maintain the drive to go after them. Sometimes friction in association results because your penchant for exactness and detail can cause you to be too fussy over inconsequential matters in the home or at work. You desire refinement, understanding, and appreciation, yet sometimes your outward attitude does not reveal your innermost feelings, and thus you have never felt truly understood. Growths could also be a possibility.
