Your first name of Ailssa contributes sensitive, creative, and idealistic qualities to your nature that could be expressed in a variety of literary or artistic fields. As a result, you often feel nervous, self-conscious, lonely, and sorry for yourself. You are not robust because your inner nervous tension saps your vitality. Since you lack self-confidence, you are reluctant to take steps to resolve a vital concern, even though you feel quite strongly about it. When things do not go well and your feelings are hurt, you are likely to turn your thoughts within and become uncommunicative. Being idealistic has a creative side, but being too idealistic has a tendency to shut out harsh reality. You find the mysteries of life and mind to be intriguing, and you enjoy reading especially about mystery and romance or possibly the occult. Without this support, you find it difficult to make important decisions. You are not enjoying the fullness life has to offer, as you lack self-confidence, ambition, assertiveness, and energetic vitality that would open your mind to the happiness and fulfilment you were meant to have. A lack of confidence leads to procrastination, a need for support and encouragement from others, and a vulnerability to be taken advantage of in many situations.