Your first name of Aldonza gives you the desire for success and financial accumulation and the confidence and drive to go after your ambitions, regardless of obstacles. This name makes you sceptical and headstrong. You do not depend upon others for encouragement to carry out your undertakings. You tend to feel very frustrated in being unable to realize your ambitions fully. Many friendships are lost because of your directness. Excessive affection embarrasses you and you do not appreciate being the target for endearing words, not that you do not value them, but your self-conscious traits make it difficult for you to know how to respond. You say what you have to say in a candid, honest manner. However, misunderstandings occur occasionally when others find your direct approach and opinions too severe. You would be a firm parent and your children would be well-disciplined, but you would find it difficult to get close to them and to show compassion and affection. Those in close association complain that you are not inclined to observe and return acts of kindness, compassion, or affection.