Your first name of Alitha gives you the desire to understand and to help others but, at the same time you can become too involved in their problems and, as a result, worry too much. People like you at first meeting. You desire many things, but discipline and self-restraint are challenges for you. However, you might not be quite firm enough with them in discipline because there is softer sensitive side to your nature. You could be successful in public office where you are diligently looking after the rights of others. You make friends easily. However, you must guard against worry over decisions both for yourself and others. You have a love of home and family and could be a good mother because of your gentle, loving ways. More self-confidence would enhance your favourable qualities as well as give you the positivity and snap judgment needed to enrich your life by expanding your horizons in so many ways. You are not enjoying the fullness life has to offer you because of certain limitations.