Your first name of Anselda has made you a sociable person who appreciates the beauties of nature and the refinements of life, and is moved by music and the arts. At times, there is a decidedly independent and determined side to your nature in coping with people; however, you dislike to witness hurt feelings and will avoid issues. You may appear reserved and aloof, but you seek love and tenderness. Many times, you feel misunderstood because not even your closest friends really know you. Your deep affection for and devotion to others expresses naturally in an atmosphere of understanding. If someone misrepresents you or makes a joke out of something important to you, you withdraw and use silence as a method of making the person aware of the inappropriate comments. You could be drawn to the mysteries of life, religious or philosophical concepts, to the arts, music, or the theatre. Sometimes because it is difficult for you to cope with the reality of life, especially when you are unhappy, you will often read to avoid issues rather than facing objectionable situations. Thus, you live much within your own thoughts, often finding your escape in reading, which you love to do. You have a very kind and gentle nature, and although you may be in a position in contact with the public, you will still be a lonely and reserved person.