Your first name of Arida gives you the desire to understand and to help others but, at the same time you can become too involved in their problems and, as a result, worry too much. You are not an overly aggressive person but you are earnest in carrying out your responsibilities. People like you at first meeting. However, you must guard against worry over decisions both for yourself and others. While your sensitive, idealistic nature has a positive side, you need to guard against becoming too much of a dreamer. Even though you have many admirable qualities, you need initiative, self-confidence,and ambition. You desire many things, but discipline and self-restraint are challenges for you. You have an appreciation of beauty in many forms, and enjoy musical and artistic expression along with all the refinements of life. You are not enjoying the fullness life has to offer you because of certain limitations. Though you recognize your responsibilities, you are inclined to put things off until you are forced to take action.