Your first name of Arlais gives you the desire to understand and to help others but, at the same time you can become too involved in their problems and, as a result, worry too much. You could be successful in public office where you are diligently looking after the rights of others. Because others often come to you for assistance with their problems, you must guard against being drawn out to divulge confidences. You desire many things, but discipline and self-restraint are challenges for you. You appreciate the pleasures of life. Since you do not want to offend, you are prone to back away from confrontations and arguments for the sake of maintaining the peace. You shrink from sordidness and poverty because you feel very deeply for anyone in unfortunate circumstances. You do not like very active or strenuous activities, preferring socializing and relaxing. More self-confidence would enhance your favourable qualities as well as give you the positivity and snap judgment needed to enrich your life by expanding your horizons in so many ways. Though you recognize your responsibilities, you are inclined to put things off until you are forced to take action.