Your first name of Arup has given you a pleasant, easy-going, friendly nature. Your ambitions are not large, as you lack confidence in your own abilities and would sooner not take a chance. You are often at odds with yourself, knowing what you should do, but finding it hard to find the initiative and will power to do it. Your regard for family and friends is shown in what you do for them rather than what you say. You are not overly versatile or adaptable because you have to have a very good reason for making changes. Personal contacts are important to you. Although you enjoy sociability and chatter, it is not easy for you to express your deeper thoughts and feelings, especially toward the ones you care for. Fond of home and settled conditions, you would enjoy the responsibilities that come with being a homemaker and parent, or in serving people such as in nursing or social work. This name limits imagination and vision. You seek the advice of others when making a decision and prefer to work for others, rather than carry the full responsibility yourself.