Your first name of Bly has made you happiest when you are expressing in some creative, artistic way, and not conforming to strict routine. You find it difficult to say “no” and mean it. Occasionally, when you are unhappy or disappointed by something, you can be moody and temperamental, and feel misunderstood and unappreciated. You enjoy reading and can become so absorbed that you are unaware of what is happening around you. However, self-consciousness, at times, prevents you from feeling at ease in positions of impromptu self-expression. On the other hand, among friends with whom you feel at ease, you are expressive, witty, and quite charming. You are deep, philosophical, and refined, but your extremely sensitive nature causes you to become depressed and self-pitying over any real or imagined slight. You enjoy sweets and starchy foods. Over-indulgence could cause a weak back, skin conditions or arthritis later in life. The reserved, sensitive side of your nature brings aloneness and friction into your life, although you crave affection and understanding.