Your first name of Borden gives you a friendly, congenial personality and causes you to desire activities involving people. You have a strong emotional nature that, if not kept under control, could be detrimental to your health or result in problems in close personal relationships. You need to see a concept presented completely in detail before you can understand it, and if you cannot understand it, you come to your own conclusion and often fail to listen to and reason out another's point of view. This uncertainty and indecision undermines your initiative, positivity, and vitality. Even with lesser ones, you prefer to talk them over with a respected friend or associate first. You find it difficult to take a definite stand, partly because you lack confidence, and also because you dislike any issues which create dissension between people. You are not comfortable having to make major decisions. Not liking to stand alone, you seek the assurance of love, understanding, and appreciation to give you the confidence to do your best. While you do have many fine qualities, the tensions created by this name do not allow you to enjoy a full and complete life. Growths could also be a possibility.