Your first name of Cai-Xia makes you easy-going and refined, but detracts from your physical vitality. Then due to procrastination and occasionally, indifference, you renege on those promises. Unfortunately, you tend to make promises for the sake of politeness or because you cannot refuse. Keeping the peace and expressing kindness, consideration, and courtesy are important to you and often you allow others to have their way and to take advantage of your willingness to please. You tend to be a follower, passive in your approach to life, blending with others rather than being actively creative, independent, and outspoken. You can give good advice although it is unlikely that you would follow it yourself. You enjoy the comforts and amenities of life and refined surroundings that create a sense of peace and harmony. You find pleasure in music, art, and drama and enjoy catering to the comfort of others. You would be most successful in situations where you can use your skills in diplomacy in handling people, but where you are not under pressure or required to carry responsibility and make decisions. All these things are your attempt to surround yourself with peace and harmony, to enjoy the security of happy, relaxed association.
