Your first name of Charmila makes you easy-going and refined, but detracts from your physical vitality. You naturally attract people with problems who seek your understanding and advice. You find pleasure in music, art, and drama and enjoy catering to the comfort of others. People are inclined to take advantage of your sympathetic, tractable nature. Keeping the peace and expressing kindness, consideration, and courtesy are important to you and often you allow others to have their way and to take advantage of your willingness to please. You invariably seek partnerships, for this name causes you to lack confidence in your abilities to be shrewd and to make quick judgments. You can give good advice although it is unlikely that you would follow it yourself. You try to avoid stressful experiences, as you have great difficulty in handling tension. You would be most successful in situations where you can use your skills in diplomacy in handling people, but where you are not under pressure or required to carry responsibility and make decisions. It is difficult for you to be individual and make your own decisions, for you lack self-confidence.