Your first name of Dairrian makes you easy-going and refined, but detracts from your physical vitality. Keeping the peace and expressing kindness, consideration, and courtesy are important to you and often you allow others to have their way and to take advantage of your willingness to please. As a result, you must guard against being too easily led, perhaps to divulge confidences, and to talk indiscriminately about others. Then due to procrastination and occasionally, indifference, you renege on those promises. Encouragement and assurance from others strengthens your resolve that you are making the best decisions. Unfortunately, you tend to make promises for the sake of politeness or because you cannot refuse. You can give good advice although it is unlikely that you would follow it yourself. People are inclined to take advantage of your sympathetic, tractable nature. All these things are your attempt to surround yourself with peace and harmony, to enjoy the security of happy, relaxed association. You would be most successful in situations where you can use your skills in diplomacy in handling people, but where you are not under pressure or required to carry responsibility and make decisions.