Your first name of Darhkyelle makes you easy-going and refined, but detracts from your physical vitality. You can give good advice although it is unlikely that you would follow it yourself. Keeping the peace and expressing kindness, consideration, and courtesy are important to you and often you allow others to have their way and to take advantage of your willingness to please. Then due to procrastination and occasionally, indifference, you renege on those promises. If a project requires too much hard work, effort, or discomfort, you will seek alternatives to avoid the difficulties. You enjoy the comforts and amenities of life and refined surroundings that create a sense of peace and harmony. Seldom do you take part in activities that are too strenuous and rigorous as you do not have the same vitality and perseverance that others have, although influences in your family name or other names you may use could modify this tendency. Encouragement and assurance from others strengthens your resolve that you are making the best decisions. You would be most successful in situations where you can use your skills in diplomacy in handling people, but where you are not under pressure or required to carry responsibility and make decisions. It is difficult for you to be individual and make your own decisions, for you lack self-confidence.