Your first name of Deshandra has made you a sociable person who appreciates the beauties of nature and the refinements of life, and is moved by music and the arts. At times, there is a decidedly independent and determined side to your nature in coping with people; however, you dislike to witness hurt feelings and will avoid issues. You suffer greatly with lack of confidence and self-consciousness. You value the beauty and peace experienced while outdoors away from crowds or the pressures of life. When you experience friendship and support from others, you feel better about yourself. Your deep affection for and devotion to others expresses naturally in an atmosphere of understanding. Under just the right circumstances, you can be very dramatic. You may find some expression but it would usually be light conversation, rarely daring to reveal your deeper thoughts or take others into your confidence for fear of criticism or ridicule. Thus, you live much within your own thoughts, often finding your escape in reading, which you love to do. Under stressful conditions, you may experience tension in the solar plexus area.