Your first name of Eerma gives you the desire to understand and to help others but, at the same time you can become too involved in their problems and, as a result, worry too much. While your sensitive, idealistic nature has a positive side, you need to guard against becoming too much of a dreamer. You have an appreciation of beauty in many forms, and enjoy musical and artistic expression along with all the refinements of life. Whenever possible, you avoid argument and turmoil because you prefer not to face an issue if it means hurting anyone's feelings. You are not an overly aggressive person but you are earnest in carrying out your responsibilities. Since you do not want to offend, you are prone to back away from confrontations and arguments for the sake of maintaining the peace. However, you must guard against worry over decisions both for yourself and others. However, you might not be quite firm enough with them in discipline because there is softer sensitive side to your nature. More self-confidence would enhance your favourable qualities as well as give you the positivity and snap judgment needed to enrich your life by expanding your horizons in so many ways. You are not enjoying the fullness life has to offer you because of certain limitations.