Your first name of Ilka has developed qualities of positivity, independence, and self-confidence. Having everything under control is important to you as it reflects your capable, serious nature. Your standards of quality and efficiency are high. You candidly say what you think and this quality, combined with your diligence to look after the rights of people, can cause others to think of you as being interfering and bossy, or lacking in tact and understanding. You are very determined, positive in opinion, and resist taking direction and advice from others. You take your responsibilities seriously and have a deep appreciation for family and the home environment. Your accomplishments give you a great deal of satisfaction, and involvement in social activities can sometimes make you feel that you are wasting time. This name does make you quite direct and straight-to-the-point. The influence of this name does not promote the friendship that you desire or the relaxation and naturalness you should enjoy with people. You have a tendency to worry far too much over obligations and responsibilities.