Your first name of Ipatia makes you easy-going and refined, but detracts from your physical vitality. You try to avoid stressful experiences, as you have great difficulty in handling tension. As a result, you must guard against being too easily led, perhaps to divulge confidences, and to talk indiscriminately about others. You know what to say to bring the best response. Unfortunately, you tend to make promises for the sake of politeness or because you cannot refuse. If a project requires too much hard work, effort, or discomfort, you will seek alternatives to avoid the difficulties. Then due to procrastination and occasionally, indifference, you renege on those promises. You naturally attract people with problems who seek your understanding and advice. All these things are your attempt to surround yourself with peace and harmony, to enjoy the security of happy, relaxed association. It is difficult for you to be individual and make your own decisions, for you lack self-confidence.