Your first name, Jihai, creates an independent, determined, and persevering nature. You desire to work on your own or at least where you are making your own decisions. You feel awkward and embarrassed because you recognize your verbal restrictions in not being able to be as diplomatic, sympathetic, and solicitous, as others would like. You have a great deal of drive and initiative. You enjoy working with your hands and can be resourceful and inventive along practical lines. You can take candidness from others as you are not easily hurt. Sometimes you are too forceful with those who mean the most to you and misunderstandings arise because you find it a challenge to understand the nuances of feelings and needs of sensitive natures. When you cannot find the words to handle a situation, you can literally “see red” and want to strike out in a physical way to express your anger. You are loyal in friendships and express candidly. You enjoy outdoors activities with a few close friends.