Your first name of Kailahi gives you the desire to understand and to help others but, at the same time you can become too involved in their problems and, as a result, worry too much. However, you might not be quite firm enough with them in discipline because there is softer sensitive side to your nature. However, you must guard against worry over decisions both for yourself and others. You shrink from sordidness and poverty because you feel very deeply for anyone in unfortunate circumstances. People like you at first meeting. You will sacrifice your own opportunities to help others. Even though you have many admirable qualities, you need initiative, self-confidence,and ambition. You have an appreciation of beauty in many forms, and enjoy musical and artistic expression along with all the refinements of life. You are not enjoying the fullness life has to offer you because of certain limitations. If given the opportunity, you could develop musical and artistic abilities.