The name of Lorelaj has given you the desire for creative, artistic or musical expression in an original way. Because you like to get your own way, and your name makes it difficult for you to see things from other points of view, others accuse you of obstinacy or self-centredness. As your independence and freedom are very important, you will seldom tolerate limitations. You like to act spontaneously, but impulsive decisions and poor judgment can occasionally lead you into unsettling circumstances which spoil the success of your undertakings. You enjoy new ideas and new projects, but have difficulty in following through if once you find the novelty of an activity has worn off. Seldom planning ahead, you undertake projects and work out the details as circumstances arise. With increased familiarity you are inclined to speak your mind in a forthright, sometimes argumentative manner which creates annoyance and often hard feelings. You tend to scatter your efforts and to avoid those activities that require concentration, system and order, and attention to detail. In an argument, you usually emerge victor, but at a cost. This name does not offer the softness of expression for long-lasting compatibility in close associations.