Your first name of Needai makes you easy-going and refined, but detracts from your physical vitality. Then due to procrastination and occasionally, indifference, you renege on those promises. If a project requires too much hard work, effort, or discomfort, you will seek alternatives to avoid the difficulties. You tend to be a follower, passive in your approach to life, blending with others rather than being actively creative, independent, and outspoken. Unfortunately, you tend to make promises for the sake of politeness or because you cannot refuse. If you have guidelines and instructions to follow, you can be bold and pragmatic in handling difficult situations. You are inclined to let things slide until you are forced to take action, especially in dealing with those monotonous jobs that require system and concentration like housework or budget planning. Keeping the peace and expressing kindness, consideration, and courtesy are important to you and often you allow others to have their way and to take advantage of your willingness to please. It is difficult for you to be individual and make your own decisions, for you lack self-confidence. You would be most successful in situations where you can use your skills in diplomacy in handling people, but where you are not under pressure or required to carry responsibility and make decisions.
