Your first name of Neelia creates a friendly, sociable, charming nature, but causes you to be too easily influenced by others. Your tendency to be candid, and at times abrupt, causes misunderstandings. Others learn that you cannot be told what to do and you seldom change your mind once it is made up. While you find it easy to meet and mix, and can appear agreeable and compromising in conversation, you can become dogmatic and forceful if pressed too far. You can be very obliging, helping others in times of need and neglecting your own duties. Very often you put off activities until you are forced to take action. You can be very witty and others appreciate your sense of humour. You like to do things your own way, learning from your own experiences. When asked, you are able to give others good advice that you would probably not follow yourself, but must guard against being too opinionated in controversial matters. In a position dealing with the public, you could do well because of your friendly personality, interest in people, and desire to please.