Your first name of Nekole gives you a poised, gracious, and reserved nature. You appear aloof and, as a result, others do not realize how important affection and understanding are to you. You would like to be easy-going and spontaneous but it does not come easily. As you rarely disclose aspects of your personal life, others must persevere in getting to know you. As you do not like to be taken for granted, you can be somewhat stubborn and unbending when you feel misunderstood. As you are a private person, it is a challenge for others to get to know and understand you. You are inclined to be secretive, sometimes suspicious of others, and you seldom reveal your innermost thoughts until you are comfortable and trusting of someone. Rather than arguing, you use silence as your way of handling difficult situations. Any weaknesses in health tends to affect the heart and respiratory organs or the female organs. Impromptu expression does not come easily unless you know your subject very well.