Your first name of Nelena gives you the desire to understand and to help others but, at the same time you can become too involved in their problems and, as a result, worry too much. People like you at first meeting. However, you might not be quite firm enough with them in discipline because there is softer sensitive side to your nature. Even though you have many admirable qualities, you need initiative, self-confidence,and ambition. You desire many things, but discipline and self-restraint are challenges for you. You have a love of home and family and could be a good mother because of your gentle, loving ways. You appreciate the pleasures of life. However, you must guard against worry over decisions both for yourself and others. You are not enjoying the fullness life has to offer you because of certain limitations. Though you recognize your responsibilities, you are inclined to put things off until you are forced to take action.