Your first name of Nelita gives you an independent, serious, reticent, and studious nature. Your difficulty in putting your deeper thoughts and feelings into words can lead to problems in more intimate associations. You can express your thoughts best in writing, and you express your appreciation of others through little acts of service rather than verbally. At such times you can withdraw into a mood, and may not even speak to others. You express your thoughts and feelings best through writing rather than verbally. This name does not offer naturalness of expression, and as it is too serious an influence, it should be changed. You are a thoughtful, analytical person, and you know your own mind, even though you may not speak it. You are very conscientious and competent in all that you do. For that reason, despite having good business abilities, you like to work alone or where you are making your own decisions. It has created separateness from others and loneliness in your life.