Your first name of Ngassam makes you easy-going and refined, but detracts from your physical vitality. If a project requires too much hard work, effort, or discomfort, you will seek alternatives to avoid the difficulties. You find pleasure in music, art, and drama and enjoy catering to the comfort of others. You can give good advice although it is unlikely that you would follow it yourself. You know what to say to bring the best response. You tend to be a follower, passive in your approach to life, blending with others rather than being actively creative, independent, and outspoken. You desire all the finer things in life--lovely clothes, home, furniture, and environment. If you have guidelines and instructions to follow, you can be bold and pragmatic in handling difficult situations. You would be most successful in situations where you can use your skills in diplomacy in handling people, but where you are not under pressure or required to carry responsibility and make decisions. All these things are your attempt to surround yourself with peace and harmony, to enjoy the security of happy, relaxed association.