Your first name of Oenid makes you easy-going and refined, but detracts from your physical vitality. Keeping the peace and expressing kindness, consideration, and courtesy are important to you and often you allow others to have their way and to take advantage of your willingness to please. Seldom do you take part in activities that are too strenuous and rigorous as you do not have the same vitality and perseverance that others have, although influences in your family name or other names you may use could modify this tendency. You can give good advice although it is unlikely that you would follow it yourself. Then due to procrastination and occasionally, indifference, you renege on those promises. You tend to be a follower, passive in your approach to life, blending with others rather than being actively creative, independent, and outspoken. You desire all the finer things in life--lovely clothes, home, furniture, and environment. You are inclined to let things slide until you are forced to take action, especially in dealing with those monotonous jobs that require system and concentration like housework or budget planning. All these things are your attempt to surround yourself with peace and harmony, to enjoy the security of happy, relaxed association. You would be most successful in situations where you can use your skills in diplomacy in handling people, but where you are not under pressure or required to carry responsibility and make decisions.