Your first name of Okla has made you happiest when you are expressing in some creative, artistic way, and not conforming to strict routine. You seldom like your time to be organized rigidly by others, but like to do things in your own way, at your own time. Your close friends are few. However, self-consciousness, at times, prevents you from feeling at ease in positions of impromptu self-expression. You love to argue and can be strong-willed, but you are easily hurt by the comments of others. These contrasting natures make it difficult for people to understand you and can lead to friction in your personal life. When you are with acquaintances and strangers, you tend to be reserved and reticent, shy and secretive but, on the other hand, with close friends you can sometimes be the life of the party, expressive, humorous, dramatic, and fun-loving. Your friends seldom know what to expect from you because of this dual character—friendly and charming one moment or lost in introspection the next. You find the beauties of nature, fine music, art, and literature--all the deeper things of life--inspiring. The reserved, sensitive side of your nature brings aloneness and friction into your life, although you crave affection and understanding.