Your first name of Oldham gives you a poised, gracious, and reserved nature. Your feelings are better expressed through writing. However, you have a dignity and poise that allow you to handle responsible positions in business. As you rarely disclose aspects of your personal life, others must persevere in getting to know you. You prefer positions where your independence and love of freedom are not curtailed, where there is not the constant demands of people. You enjoy music, particularly of those instruments that remind you of the sounds of nature. You are a serious nature and could be subject to momentary moods of depression, thoughts of jealousy, and lack of confidence. Harmony and relaxation for you could be a quiet walk along the seashore, or in the woods or anywhere that you can observe the beauties of the outdoors. Any weaknesses in health tends to affect the heart and respiratory organs or the female organs. You love to read and can develop great powers of concentration.