Your first name of Pelela gives you the desire to understand and to help others but, at the same time you can become too involved in their problems and, as a result, worry too much. People like you at first meeting. You shrink from sordidness and poverty because you feel very deeply for anyone in unfortunate circumstances. Whenever possible, you avoid argument and turmoil because you prefer not to face an issue if it means hurting anyone's feelings. When you are needed and appreciated by others, you sense a security which builds your confidence. While your sensitive, idealistic nature has a positive side, you need to guard against becoming too much of a dreamer. Even though you have many admirable qualities, you need initiative, self-confidence,and ambition. However, you have a good business head, practical and capable of handling responsibility for others. Though you recognize your responsibilities, you are inclined to put things off until you are forced to take action. You are not enjoying the fullness life has to offer you because of certain limitations.
