The name of Qilifa creates a dual nature in that you can be very generous and understanding, but you can also be so candid in your expression that you create misunderstanding. Often you do the things you like to excess and, as a result, you wear yourself out. You dislike monotony. You like to add something new, something different, to your creativity, drawing upon your inventive traits. Thus, you have too often created the wrong impression, and friendships have suffered. You struggle with the requirement to soften your expression with tact and diplomacy and to consider the feelings of others. You desire to be recognized for your efforts, and, if you feel you are being taken for granted, you are apt to become intolerant, critical, and complaining. You tend to scatter your efforts by being involved in too many activities at times, thereby forfeiting success in some areas because of lack of attention to detail. You have very intense feelings and find it difficult to maintain stability and happiness. This quality can spoil friendships and create losses in the affections.
