Your first name of Rafada has given you a desire for self-expression and for positions that allow contact with people, free from the restrictions and monotony into which you are often drawn. If you receive an apology, you can be very forgiving, for you do not tend to hold grudges. You enjoy surprises to a degree, yet it is difficult for you to adjust quickly. If told that you must do something, you tend to resist, but when your sense of co-operation is appealed to, then your desire to please brings out your best. You are friendly by nature, but you cannot enjoy complete ease in association because of a difficulty in expressing yourself. You can be easily hurt by harsh words and depreciatory remarks, but you hide your feelings and appear indifferent as though they do not affect you. This disparity creates frustration within you as you cannot consistently maintain the system and order you desire. You take pleasure from practical creativity such as cooking, sewing, or craft work. You enjoy sugars and starchy, rich foods. There is conflict between your desires and your expression which does not allow scope for your capabilities.