Your first name of Relenda creates an intense desire for association with people and new experiences, many of which have been rather bitter. You make the effort to communicate with others because you place importance on having people like you. When you are annoyed or under excessive pressure, you must be careful not to be biting in your speech, fault-finding, and hard to please. Talking comes easily to you, but you must guard against your inclination to talk too much, especially if you are overstressed. When challenged for an explanation on a matter that could cause conflict, you can almost instantly come up with an acceptable answer to deflect the issue, even if you have to stretch the truth a little. You desire change and travel and would enjoy opportunities that allowed you to be creative and to act independently, rather than to conform to system and routine. Through lack of discretion and being too emotional, you could attract bitter experiences and disappointments in people. This name has given you a gregarious personality and a quick-thinking, creative, and versatile nature, but one that is unstable emotionally. These upsets drain your vitality and make you tire more readily. This name spoils patience and depth of thought, and weakens your stand in matters of principle.