Your first name of Rhoads has made you a sociable person who appreciates the beauties of nature and the refinements of life, and is moved by music and the arts. You crave affection and understanding, yet because you can be so easily and deeply hurt, you have learned to keep your true nature hidden; therefore people do not really know you. As you are extremely impressionable and easily hurt and offended, you are hesitant when it comes to revealing your deeper thoughts and feelings. People may consider you haughty and aloof because of your sensitivity and reserved ways. Being self-conscious you do not like to be the centre of attention, yet you would like to be more expressive, outgoing, and spontaneous. Many times, you feel misunderstood because not even your closest friends really know you. Sometimes because it is difficult for you to cope with the reality of life, especially when you are unhappy, you will often read to avoid issues rather than facing objectionable situations. Your deep affection for and devotion to others expresses naturally in an atmosphere of understanding. Thus, you live much within your own thoughts, often finding your escape in reading, which you love to do. You have a very kind and gentle nature, and although you may be in a position in contact with the public, you will still be a lonely and reserved person.