Your first name of Rutger makes you a capable leader and organizer. Not easily swayed by your feelings, you endeavour to be objective, just, and fair in your dealings. Personal relationships may suffer because of your disregard for the emotional needs of others, especially if they are sensitive or inspirational and crave affection and reassurance. You find it difficult to be in positions of subservience or where you are taking advice from others. There is an inclination to be controlling, and to be intolerant of those who are impractical in handling their affairs and finances. You are ambitious and practical and often look at things for their financial viability. It tends to create a shrewd nature, often judging others by their material achievements. This name is not constructive as it influences one to be materialistic, self-centred, and lacking in appreciation for the aesthetic aspects in life. This name makes you too forceful at times, limiting the natural feminine qualities of tenderness and tact. Personal relationships suffer sometimes because you are inclined to overlook the little things, such as thoughtful and appreciative gestures.
