Your first name of Sandela has made you a sociable person who appreciates the beauties of nature and the refinements of life, and is moved by music and the arts. Crudeness and vulgarity are very repulsive to you and you are very particular about little things. Many times, you feel misunderstood because not even your closest friends really know you. When you experience friendship and support from others, you feel better about yourself. Being self-conscious you do not like to be the centre of attention, yet you would like to be more expressive, outgoing, and spontaneous. You may find some expression but it would usually be light conversation, rarely daring to reveal your deeper thoughts or take others into your confidence for fear of criticism or ridicule. Sometimes because it is difficult for you to cope with the reality of life, especially when you are unhappy, you will often read to avoid issues rather than facing objectionable situations. Your deep affection for and devotion to others expresses naturally in an atmosphere of understanding. You have a very kind and gentle nature, and although you may be in a position in contact with the public, you will still be a lonely and reserved person. Thus, you live much within your own thoughts, often finding your escape in reading, which you love to do.