Your first name of Sebestina gives you a friendly, congenial personality and causes you to desire activities involving people. You need to see a concept presented completely in detail before you can understand it, and if you cannot understand it, you come to your own conclusion and often fail to listen to and reason out another's point of view. You have a strong emotional nature that, if not kept under control, could be detrimental to your health or result in problems in close personal relationships. Even with lesser ones, you prefer to talk them over with a respected friend or associate first. It is very important to you to have peaceful, settled conditions in your life. You are not comfortable having to make major decisions. Procrastination, which arises from not being sure of yourself, is one of your major weaknesses because of your preference to avoid issues or unpleasantness in all forms. This name brings the tendency to magnify small issues out of proportion or to become too involved in personality conflicts. While you do have many fine qualities, the tensions created by this name do not allow you to enjoy a full and complete life. You desire refinement, understanding, and appreciation, yet sometimes your outward attitude does not reveal your innermost feelings, and thus you have never felt truly understood.
