Your first name of Sedemai makes you easy-going and refined, but detracts from your physical vitality. You are intuitive and impressionable, sensitive to the thoughts and feelings of others, and very responsive to affection and attention. You desire all the finer things in life--lovely clothes, home, furniture, and environment. People are inclined to take advantage of your sympathetic, tractable nature. Unfortunately, you tend to make promises for the sake of politeness or because you cannot refuse. You try to avoid stressful experiences, as you have great difficulty in handling tension. Then due to procrastination and occasionally, indifference, you renege on those promises. You can give good advice although it is unlikely that you would follow it yourself. You would be most successful in situations where you can use your skills in diplomacy in handling people, but where you are not under pressure or required to carry responsibility and make decisions. All these things are your attempt to surround yourself with peace and harmony, to enjoy the security of happy, relaxed association.