Your first name of Selanda has made you a sociable person who appreciates the beauties of nature and the refinements of life, and is moved by music and the arts. You always wonder if you are doing the right thing, desiring to express yourself but afraid to. You may find some expression but it would usually be light conversation, rarely daring to reveal your deeper thoughts or take others into your confidence for fear of criticism or ridicule. Gently falling rain, the wind in the willows, the sounds of birds, dappled sunlight through the trees in a forest, many expressions of nature reach your imagination and help to build a sense of harmony within. You suffer greatly with lack of confidence and self-consciousness. You may appear reserved and aloof, but you seek love and tenderness. As you are extremely impressionable and easily hurt and offended, you are hesitant when it comes to revealing your deeper thoughts and feelings. People may consider you haughty and aloof because of your sensitivity and reserved ways. Under stressful conditions, you may experience tension in the solar plexus area. You have a very kind and gentle nature, and although you may be in a position in contact with the public, you will still be a lonely and reserved person.
