Your first name of Selay gives you a responsible, self-sufficient, and dependable nature. In a marriage or family, you are often required to make the major decisions. You have a strong, determined nature and tend to dominate others, and at times interfere, in your desire to be helpful. This name gives you many good qualities, but it is too strong, creating a materialistic nature and bringing out a forceful, demanding quality. The heavy responsibility your name brings can result in a worrying, intense nature. You do not like to be in subservient positions but want opportunities with greater scope. If you have been given the opportunity, you could do well in business developing your leadership, administrative, and managing abilities. You do not like to relinquish control nor do you accept advice readily. This name makes you too forceful at times, limiting the natural feminine qualities of tenderness and tact. It spoils the development and expression of your warmer, more feminine attributes.