Your first name of Selden has given you energy, drive, and ambition, but also an almost excessively strong-willed and independent nature. Over-intensity is your challenge; you put a great deal of effort into your activities, but often fail to take time to relax, to view your plans objectively, and perhaps, to consider the opinions of others. Your love for others is shown more in your loyalty and sense of fair play rather than in any overt demonstrations of love and affection. Because of the restless qualities within your first name, it is very often difficult for you to find pleasure in ordinary congeniality. You rebel at restrictions and are resourceful in unexpected circumstances. Unfortunately, this name makes it difficult for you to concentrate and to finish what you start because, once your interest in a project wanes, you begin to look for something new, something different to challenge yourself, anything to avoid monotony and the handling of details. As it is difficult for you to express the little attentions and niceties that appeal to more sensitive natures, you attract misunderstandings with those who do not appreciate your forthright manner. Therefore, if anyone interferes with your activities or offers unsolicited advice, you are inclined to react defensively and express your feelings in a blunt and, at times, caustic manner. While you are creative, inventive, and ingenious in practical matters, and always ready to initiate and promote new undertakings, you often experience difficulty in bringing your undertakings to a successful conclusion because of your own changing interests or changing circumstances. This name spoils relaxation and contentment, the mental qualities necessary for good health.
