Your first name of Selemas makes you easy-going and refined, but detracts from your physical vitality. You naturally attract people with problems who seek your understanding and advice. You dislike issues and will do whatever it takes to avoid direct confrontations. You tend to be a follower, passive in your approach to life, blending with others rather than being actively creative, independent, and outspoken. Unfortunately, you tend to make promises for the sake of politeness or because you cannot refuse. You know what to say to bring the best response. People are inclined to take advantage of your sympathetic, tractable nature. Seldom do you take part in activities that are too strenuous and rigorous as you do not have the same vitality and perseverance that others have, although influences in your family name or other names you may use could modify this tendency. All these things are your attempt to surround yourself with peace and harmony, to enjoy the security of happy, relaxed association. It is difficult for you to be individual and make your own decisions, for you lack self-confidence.