Your first name of Selemena has made you a sociable person who appreciates the beauties of nature and the refinements of life, and is moved by music and the arts. You suffer greatly with lack of confidence and self-consciousness. Being self-conscious you do not like to be the centre of attention, yet you would like to be more expressive, outgoing, and spontaneous. Sometimes because it is difficult for you to cope with the reality of life, especially when you are unhappy, you will often read to avoid issues rather than facing objectionable situations. Many times, you feel misunderstood because not even your closest friends really know you. You live much within your own thoughts and find companionship in literature, especially romance or mystery. Lacking confidence, you tend to depreciate your own value and ability, yet you could excel in creative writing or design as an outlet for your imaginative, poetic qualities. If someone misrepresents you or makes a joke out of something important to you, you withdraw and use silence as a method of making the person aware of the inappropriate comments. Under stressful conditions, you may experience tension in the solar plexus area. You have a very kind and gentle nature, and although you may be in a position in contact with the public, you will still be a lonely and reserved person.
