Your first name of Selfa gives you an independent, serious, reticent, and studious nature. You are a thoughtful, analytical person, and you know your own mind, even though you may not speak it. At such times you can withdraw into a mood, and may not even speak to others. It is only when you are among people who understand your deeper nature that you can really be yourself. An intellectual, you have a deep appreciation for art, music, literature, and all the phenomena of nature. This name has caused you to live much within yourself. This name does not offer naturalness of expression, and as it is too serious an influence, it should be changed. The experience of having your remarks taken lightly or belittled, particularly during the early years of your life, has caused you to keep your thoughts and feelings to yourself. It has created separateness from others and loneliness in your life. Worry and mental depression could be problems in your life.