Your first name of Selfo has given you a quick-minded, sensitive nature. Your sociable nature expresses affection, kindness, and thoughtfulness to the extent that it is difficult for you not to be affected by others and governed by your emotions, rather than by logic and reason. As you respond to love and encouragement from others, your romantic and dreamy nature can easily lead you into love affairs. You tend to scatter your efforts, though you are enthusiastic initially; but when it comes to handling the monotonous details, your interest wanes. It gives you a creative ability in art, music, singing, or fancywork and an appreciation for refined surroundings. Because of your friendly and diplomatic qualities, you make friends easily. Yours is a quick mind and you can usually think of something to say when there is a need to offset or deflect an unpleasant situation, sometimes even stretching the truth a little when it is expedient. You find it very difficult to make decisions. Also, budgeting can be a problem as you enjoy spending money and can easily ignore being practical. Your desire for peace at any price can result in going out of your way to avoid arguments and confrontation or hurting the feelings of others.