Your first name of Selisana gives you a poised, gracious, and reserved nature. When called upon to extemporize, you could be self-conscious and nervous as you prefer to be fully prepared ahead of time to handle situations and experiences. You prefer positions where your independence and love of freedom are not curtailed, where there is not the constant demands of people. You are not spontaneous nor adaptable to situations where there are constant interruptions. You would like to be easy-going and spontaneous but it does not come easily. Rather than arguing, you use silence as your way of handling difficult situations. Intrigued by the mysteries of life, you often ponder the deeper reasons for existence. As you do not like to be taken for granted, you can be somewhat stubborn and unbending when you feel misunderstood. You love to read and can develop great powers of concentration. The mysteries of life appeal to you in your search for an understanding of the greater picture of life.